We have all been there, in a bar, a club, or even at a friends house, when we meet the person of our dreams, and we simply don’t know if they feel the same way. The problem is on those first few meetings, it can be hard to figure out if they are just as attracted to you, as you are to them, because it isn’t very likely they will come straight out and tell you. Luckily there is one way you can find out if the attraction is mutual, and that is to look at their body language.

The first tell tale sign of attraction with body language is someones eyes. Do they gaze at you and look deep into your eyes when you are talking to them? Are their pupils dilated? Is their gaze accompanied with a lovely smile? If you answered yes to any of those questions, then there is a good chance that they feel the same way you do.

You can also look at the way they a sitting or standing when you are with them. When someone is attracted to you they will usually lean forward with their shoulders pointing directly towards you. If you are sitting down then look at the way they are sitting. Are they sitting with their legs crossed, and their hands tight in their laps? Or are they sitting with their legs slightly open? An open posture generally means they may feel some attraction towards you.

Another sign of attraction in body language is someones wrists or palms. Next time you are talking to the possible love of your life, have a look and see if their palms and wrists are exposed. If they are, then this is a common yet subtle sign of attraction.